| Effie Haralabakos was more then a mother
of three kids, and a wife. She was more then a working citizen,
she was and still is an inspiration to all that knew her. She was
one of the most unselfish people, willing to go above and beyond
herself to help others that were in need and or less fortunate.
Her nature was to give love in any which way possible to others,
and by cause and effect she found herself rewarded by the nature
of her accomplishments. Simple acts, such as buying a turkey for
a family who could not afford a Christmas dinner, or donating to
an organization for a good cause, Effie Haralabakos was always giving
something back to the community. She was a source of strength even
in the most difficult moments for those who needed help.
Effie Haralabakos was born in Militsa Greece 1949. She was struck
by adversity from the early age of thirteen when her mother passed
away from a long term illness. At the age of nineteen she moved
to Montreal Canada where she later met her husband and moved to
New York City. After having her first two, of three children, her
brother became severely ill at the age of 26, and along with her
family she worked very hard accessing every resource possible to
offer new hope to her brother. The medical community regularly informed
Effie that her brother would not live long, but Effie Haralabakos
never stopped hoping, and that hope offered her brother strength.
Twenty two years later her brother passed away, but lived far more
years then any doctor’s expectations.
Effie Haralabakos later on moved to Calgary, Alberta Canada where
she lived for twenty years. In August of 2003 she was diagnosed
with an astorcytoma in the frontal lobe of the brain, her first
words were “I’m going to beat this and I’ll be
just fine.” And she did. She recovered amazingly from brain
surgery, and although went through a difficult session of radiation
therapy, she remained strong and determined. Her radiation treatments
were followed by a year long chemotherapy treatment. The doctors
at the Cancer Centre told her that by the end of her treatment she
would lack energy and not be able to do the things she did before,
but Effie Haralabakos said “no way!” she took control
of her life and its quality and started traveling well into the
six month point of her treatments. Not only did she beat the astrocytoma
but she made sure that she upheld an outstanding quality of life.
Almost two and a half years after the first diagnosis Effie Haralabakos
was diagnosed by a lethal brain cancer called Glioma. As a result,
despite all great efforts Effie Haralabakos was no longer able to
beat the Cancer. On May 21, 2006 she passed away. The cancer may
have claimed her life, but not her legacy. Her fight was one of
a great worrier, and her story remains as an inspiration, as she
never lost sight of hope even in the end. Her ability to hold onto
hope inspires so many others to do the same, so her family created
the Effie’s Foundation of Hope to offer the community the
same strength and hope she had in her own life.
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